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Toxic Relationship?? SEEKING ADVICE
Relationship Stress / by queenChlo
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 January 4th, 2021
...See more I’m just seeking advice on whether my relationship may be becoming toxic. We’ve recently started having these arguments that seem to always be related to the same issue. For example; we had one earlier. The circumstances were that I didn’t say “baby” after saying “I love you”. I’m sure to you, that’s a very simple thing, me too. But I didn’t realise how big of a deal it was, I simply didn’t say it how it wanted me to and we argued over it. Then I feel forced to say it because he says “you forgot something” and it just feels forced. We also don’t live together just yet, so another reoccurring argument reason is if I’m online and he can see that I’m online, if I’m not talking to him, he gets angry at me. Says that I cant not reply to him instantly. 95% of the time, I’m simply watching videos or something and get distracted. He knows how very easy I get distracted. We had another this morning; I was having a hard time waking up and getting up for work, I didn’t message him a good morning until after work and he got angry at me for that also. We never fight or argue over anything else, other than those three topics. It’s just starting to feel like I’m having to force myself to react certain ways or say certain things to please humans avoid conflict. He always says to me “just don’t do it again” as if he’s forgiving me for cheating or something and I’m just his pet now. I’ve explained to him how I feel and it feels like I’m explaining to a wall. Because he just agrees with everything instead of trying to talk about the issue. I don’t know what to do at this point.
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