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Should i move on or not?
Relationship Stress / by quickwittedWillow6971
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 January 22nd, 2019
...See more So I have been dating this girl for about 7 months (we were in long distance relationship) things we going great. So she just finished her degree and was ready to find a job. But ever since then she became more distant, should show me little affecting, was not sharing with me and even started being bitchy to me for no reason. I shrug it off because I knew that was her personality. She would go back to herself for a bit and back into blocking me out. So I decided to go out to meet her and at the last minute something came up and she said no ( it was an important matter ), I didn't know and overreacted(because of my insecurities) and got into a small fight and I apologized. We were fine after that but i felt like she was slipping away not because of this. So last night she called me and we talk and she said that she extremely depressed, withdrawn, doesn't care about things/her friends, wants to be left alone( because they all got jobs and she didn't) and this is bad for us so she wants to break up/take a break because she doesn't want to hurt me and fix herself. She was feeling like she wants to do this for a while but then says she love me and wants to be with me and doesn't want to hurt me so we should. I told her that even if she dose fell that way doesn't make me feel different toward her and she can talk to me and should tell me about this a long time ago. I told her that I understand where she coming from because I too was very depressed in the past and i am her boyfriend and there for her no matter what. But still it didn't change her mind and she wants to break up with me or take a break. So I agreed to this and we taking a break now. My question is should I wait to see how she feels about me after the break, will she come back to me or should I break up with her and let go?
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