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OCD & Related Behaviors / by quietPond8260
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 May 1st, 2025
...See more Okay for context, I have OCD and I obsess over things chronically. As in, when I fixate on something a little bit too long my whole life revolves around that one thought, and I can’t prevent it. The issue is, that I think I have developed my first real crush, like I really like this boy, but my brain likes him a bit too much. For instance, we went on a ski trip with our school a couple weeks ago, and i memorised his hotel room number, and the voice in my head told me to go in and watch him sleep. Also, we went swimming and we were playing games as a group in the pool, and this one girl was getting all touchy with him, and I wanted to drwn her sooo bad. I obviously didn’t do it, but now everything revolves around him to the point it’s making me psychotic and it’s driving me mad. Any tips?
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Relationship Stress / by quietPond8260
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 May 3rd, 2025
...See more I (16f) have this friend (16m) and we are really close. We became friends when he first started dating his girlfriend (17f), and I was in a relationship too (not anymore.) Since then, we have become closer and closer, and I think I’m finally falling for him. They are very committed to each other, however, he tells me that he would love to have sx with me if he didn’t have a girlfriend. At least twice a week he asks me if I would get with him if he was single. I am friends with his girlfriend, but not close enough for me to tell her about it, as I am more loyal to him due to our friendship. This is because we have helped each other through the darkest times, and I can honestly say i would take a 🔫 for him without a second thought. I am currently exploring a new potential love interest (16m), and when I mentioned this to him he changed, and became cold and jealous, which I have never seen from him before. In a lesson the three of us were in today, he gave him dirty looks and was ignoring him on purpose, making it obvious something was wrong. When I asked him about it, he told me it was nothing and to leave him alone. Again, very out of character for him as he is never like this with me. I would understand his jealousy but he is in a relationship of his own and has no authority over my love life. I just don’t know what to do honestly.
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