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Am I being unreasonable?
Relationship Stress / by quietSugar8879
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 July 11th, 2024
...See more Hi, My husband goes to work 5 days a week and loves spending his weekends either playing video games/sleeping/relaxing. I too go to work 4 days a week and I'm also taking part time courses. On weekends, I like to relax too but also hang out with my friends. Now here's the problem, I love planning activities like going out for a stroll, going to watch a movie, going out for dinner with our friends etc, on the weekend. But my husband doesn't want to do anything on the weekends. I understand that he needs to recover from the week and I don't plan things every weekend. I only plan activities once every month or sometimes even once every two months. I'm not expecting him to spend the whole day with me but is it unreasonable of me to ask him to spend 2hrs of his weekend once every month with me? Just to add to that he doesn't spend time with anyone, just spends his time playing or sleeping
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