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40 and pregnant
35 & Over Community / by raoow
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 July 15th, 2025
...See more Hi all. I’m divorced with two kids and was dating a toxic guy. I finally found the courage to walk away then found out I’m pregnant. I know I should terminate this pregnancy but am worried I will regret it in the future. I was a SAHM throughout my 10 year marriage and only recently found a contract job so finances will be tough. There’s no government aid in my country so not able to tap into that. Part of me feels like just terminating it quickly before more symptoms appear and make it more real. As it is, I can recognise the mild cramps common in early pregnancy already. The father knows about it and I had to break my no contact with him in order to inform him. He is willing to accompany and pay for the procedure but I am not sure if I should accept that as I do not want to get more emotionally attached to him. So many thoughts in my head and only a few friends know of my situation as I feel a little ashamed of this. Sigh.
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