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...See more Hey, I feel stuck. I have to babies (17 months & 4 months old) with my boyfriend/fiance. We have been together almost 3 years. I love him with all of my heart but we've been fighting a lot since I "broke his trust" by impulsively going through his phone after asking him a few times if he's hiding something because I had a feeling. He would get super defensive immediately after me asking gently and kindly, and he's start to call me bad names. Come I find out he was hiding something. No discussion about him keeping this secret, only him yelling at me screaming to me that I betrayed his trust and he cannot trust me anymore. After loads of fighting and me apologizing for my behavior we decided it's best if me and the babies move out because he can't stand me and my love means nothing to him. As soon as I make plans and pack mine and the babies things and am about to leave he starts yelling and saying how could I just leave and give up basically. He kept saying that he doesn't want me to leave after calling me names and belittling me again. I stayed because I love him and we want to make it work. Now when any little things happens he immediately says "I don't even care if you're here or not" and "your love means nothing to me" and I decide to leave again and then he accuses me of this being easy for me to go and I never cared so again, I stay. I am drained to say the least and I'm just wondering what I can even do at this point because I do love him but he is so quick to seem to want me gone now. Please leave your opinions or comments, it would help a lot to hear an outside view.

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