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raspberryMelon3916
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LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by raspberryMelon3916
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 July 11th, 2023
...See more Hi! Im new here. Im a bi seksual cisgender woman in a relationship with a male. I recently found out ( by accident) that he is into transgenders. I told him that i saw what i saw and that isnt an issue for me, i would love to join him in that Journey, but only if he wants to ofc. He didnt feel comfortabel talking about it and i respected that. The thing is... We havent had intercourse for a very long time. ( only lonb foreplay etc) He told me why and i believed him. Untill i saw this. Now im feeling insecure about his feeleings towards an cisgender woman. And i dont know how to talk about that with him since he doesnt feel comfortabel talking about it yet. ( we are together for a year ) In the mean while my mind is *** with me with this thoughts: is he really attrackted to a cisgender woman, what if he actually doent like the female organe and doesnt admit it. Which is fine, but i need and have the right to know, right? I really have no idea what i should do. Is it possible for a male who is atrackted to transgenders also feels that way toward a cisgender female? Sorry for the long story.
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