Confused
Hi! Im new here.
Im a bi seksual cisgender woman in a relationship with a male.
I recently found out ( by accident) that he is into transgenders.
I told him that i saw what i saw and that isnt an issue for me, i would love to join him in that Journey, but only if he wants to ofc. He didnt feel comfortabel talking about it and i respected that.
The thing is...
We havent had intercourse for a very long time. ( only lonb foreplay etc) He told me why and i believed him. Untill i saw this.
Now im feeling insecure about his feeleings towards an cisgender woman. And i dont know how to talk about that with him since he doesnt feel comfortabel talking about it yet. ( we are together for a year )
In the mean while my mind is *** with me with this thoughts: is he really attrackted to a cisgender woman, what if he actually doent like the female organe and doesnt admit it. Which is fine, but i need and have the right to know, right?
I really have no idea what i should do.
Is it possible for a male who is atrackted to transgenders also feels that way toward a cisgender female?
Sorry for the long story.
@raspberryMelon3916
So, this is such a great post. I don't know the answer but I applaud you for being brave to share what's going on with you and your loved one. To me, and again, I'm outside the situation, but I'll still say what I think about it, I feel like the whole dilemma is one of communication between the two of you. The reason I say this is because I sense that there is something off, and I think you sense it too, but confronting it and dealing with openly and honestly, may possible, just possibly, be one avenue towards resolving this issue. I hope it is so. I hope you can do this. Also, I hope your partner is receptive. In any case, we are here, supporters are here on 7 cups, while you work through this. Much love. Tas
