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raspberryMoon5249
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how to move on?
Relationship Stress / by raspberryMoon5249
Last post
 January 14th, 2022
...See more i used to be really good friends with this girl in 2020, half-way through the summer she stopped talking to anyone, and when i tried to invite her to voice chatting or calling she never responded and ghosted me. throughout the rest of then summer and into the next year, she would blow up at me or be passive-aggressive for no reason. throughout my entire time being friends with her i tried to fix our relationship three times (she never tried to reach out) and when doing so she didn’t let me say anything and talked about how much i upset her (i didn’t do anything to her except cuss her out once because i was sick and tired of how she was treating me (it had been eight months at this point with her treating me like this)) now i don’t even wanna consider being her friend anymore with how badly she hurt me. i’ve kinda cut her off at this point (only talking if she reaches out to me first) but my friends don’t believe she was being mean to me and that she was just “joking” and it really hurts and i feel like i don’t have anyone anymore. they prioritized her needs above my own. i used to be really close with her, i don’t understand what happened to make her hate me. i feel like a lot of the time i’ve been used by my friends for emotional support / doormat and then they leave me. i’ve had multiple people to do this to me without any real reasoning or explanation. i guess my question is how to heal/move on from this. i take my friendships really seriously so it hurts when they leave, i feel like a part of myself leaves with them. even though it’s been two years at this point i feel like i can’t move on. any advice/tips would be appreciated. thanks in advance :)
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