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...See more So basically I started to talk to a girl 2 months and a half ago. We started to speak online untill little by little we liked each other more and more. And then we started to speak daily, call, chat, etc. I was heartbroken before so I didn't want to go all in because it was too soon and I was afraid. But she started to seem so interested in me and she matched so well with my personality and hobbies that I couldn't help but start to fall for her. Days were passing and we kept calling each more and more, untill we were almost like together and she was telling me to meet her soon. We were at the point where we said to each other that we feel love and that we are together. It was amazing and we were happy. Ome day, we had some small arguments about me being "controlling" about certain stuff but we fixed it and we understood each other. All good. Later on, she told me that we went too fast maybe, which it might be true, but she said that it was better not to say we love each other etc, but I felt love already by then even if it was soon because it's so hard to find a girl like her for me that matches me, she was not a "party girl type", smart, loyal, clingy, sweet, loving, into fashion, cultural things, etc. Perfect for me. Anyways, I unddetood her and I said okay, we could go more slowly and that's fine. We kept talking and we were very fine, and then, we met, because she wanted it so bad. It was the day we were going to meet and it went super amazing, having dinner together, going to see places and even booked a super pretty room with nice views were we made out, kissed all night etc. It was like a movie. Perfect date. After some days, once again, she mentioned that we shouldn't make this official yet and keep being patient. I said okay but it was starting to give me anxiety because I really loved her already and we did everything together during 2 months. Lastly, 2 weeks ago she says it's better not to continue this because she feels empty and numb and never felt love for anyone. She says she doesn't feel the same way as me and doesn't want to hurt me. She wants to keep me as a friend and doesn't want to let me go. I am broken, feeling down again, I have done everything I could and I tried to make her understand we can go slowly and see what happens but she seems sure her feelings won't be the same as one month ago. I don't understand how it can change that fast. I don't know what to do, I feel hopeless I have to go through this again, I can't be her friend only for a long time because it hurts. I feel very very down and lonely and I wonder if maybe with time she will want me again or if it's better to stay here for a while (because I find it too violent to say bye forever to someone I literally met and slept with 2 weeks ago) and then leave. She told me she won't be and doesn't want to be with anyone and wants to keep me here, but it feels sad how we barely call each other now and how we don't speak much daily. What do you guys think about this? Thank you.

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