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...See more currently feel like I’ve let my partner down and she has fallen out of love due to me forgetting our first anniversary -(15days ago since today) I’ve made it up the day after but, it has led to her being mindful of small things and turning them into big ones. This might be her trying to break it off though she does love me but, idk maybe still wants to be alone. I asked if she seriously wanted to be with me but she said yes and no because their are pros and cons to this relationship. So I’ve given her space a whole day and just sent this message (just want you to know, I’m giving you your space. I know I let you down and want to make it up. I’m sorry I hurt your feelings, I promise I’m trying and don’t mean to do that . i want to say I won’t do it again But, I can only show that with actions like you tell me and I hope you give me the opportunity to do that. I’m sorry and do want to make it up to you and make you feel how you deserve like in the beginning. You don’t have to reply just let me know if/when we can have a conversation in person when you’re ready to tell me or reply or anything. I love you,….. though I understand you can’t say it back right now. This isn’t me trying to make you do anything I just want you to know where my mind is.) this is me word vomiting and I know it’s a lot but, please help me know I’m doing the right thing…. Is this still workable? how can I do better? Does she already have another guy in her mind? So many thought are going through my head and I just want to hold her but know I shouldn’t surprise her like that…. Please help thank you.

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