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Relationship Stress / by redruby0807
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 July 28th, 2025
...See more So long story short me and my boyfriend were in a relationship for two years we are still together. Our first year of dating his mom passed in Aug so he up and left without saying a word to me for 5-6 months so l moved on eventually was with 2 ppl during that break. He came back in January 2024 and we got back together. Well l've made him feel like he was crazy because I was doing stupid *** like not deleting old contacts or dudes I haven't spoken to are texting me on social media *** etc. Basically | did a lot of stupid *** no cheating but | didn't make him feel secure in trusting me I wasn't honest about certain *** Even after his warnings and telling me l decide to be obvious and stupid and not fix the stuff in my phone and fix myself. Basically I wasn't honest about sleeping with anyone during the time we weren't together, even though it was in the past it contributed to the hurt. Now he's having a moral conflict about whether he wants to be with me and trust me. I want to be better for him and grow as a woman. But he doesn't want to hear my words anymore he wants action . And I feel like a terrible person for putting him through all of that . I need advice
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