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Am I non-binary?
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by reliableDime8449
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 July 18th
...See more Hi y'all, I'm kinda new to this, so please bear with me. I'm starting to wonder if I might be non-binary, though I'm not entirely sure why. I'm female, but I've always been kinda tomboyish and never really liked dressing up or wearing makeup, only occasionally. Recently realized that I was Bi, tho I've been married to a straight cis man for over ten years. Idk if I'm just having a midlife crisis or if I'm just going through a bout of depression, but now I'm starting to question my gender. I don't think I'm trans, but there are times when I just want to dress and act like a man (I also work in a very male-dominated career, so idk if that's a factor,) but sometimes I do want to dress more feminine. To complicate matters, I'm overweight so it's pretty obvious that I am a woman, even though I have short hair and usually dress casually. I'm writing on trying to lose weight, so idk if that will help or make things more confusing if I'm actually able to look like the gender I feel like..... Anyway, I really don't know exactly what's going on in my brain or what to do about it, so I'd appreciate whatever support or advice that y'all could give. Thanks 🙂
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