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Major fight with a close friend
Relationship Stress / by reliableSkies6093
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 March 9th, 2019
...See more I recently got into a big fight with one of my supposed best friends. This was probably the biggest fight Ive ever been in and I honestly dont know what to do. I noticed a couple months ago that the friendship was really one sided and I was having such a god awful day that I finally snapped. This friend hit a nerve and I called him out. The entire argument was through texts and throughout the ordeal, I was getting cursed at and he said that I was being self centered. In my perspective, I believed that I was expressing my discontent with the friendship but now after everything I feel like I spoke too harshly. So fast forward to two weeks after. We arent talking to each other. From my other friends perspectives they believed that I shouldnt feel bad about what I said and it didnt sound self centered considering I held my tongue for months because I didnt want to upset him. I feel like my life is about the same so Im glad to know that he didnt have a detrimental impact on me. However, I havent been able to stop thinking about this. I have a feeling its because we used to have feelings for each other and I cant speak for him but some things he said actually broke my heart. I dont know how to go past this and I feel like my constant worring is hindering my ability to thrive in life. If anyone has any advice for a situation like this please help. Ty!
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