Major fight with a close friend
I recently got into a big fight with one of my supposed best friends. This was probably the biggest fight Ive ever been in and I honestly dont know what to do. I noticed a couple months ago that the friendship was really one sided and I was having such a god awful day that I finally snapped. This friend hit a nerve and I called him out. The entire argument was through texts and throughout the ordeal, I was getting cursed at and he said that I was being self centered. In my perspective, I believed that I was expressing my discontent with the friendship but now after everything I feel like I spoke too harshly.
So fast forward to two weeks after. We arent talking to each other. From my other friends perspectives they believed that I shouldnt feel bad about what I said and it didnt sound self centered considering I held my tongue for months because I didnt want to upset him. I feel like my life is about the same so Im glad to know that he didnt have a detrimental impact on me. However, I havent been able to stop thinking about this. I have a feeling its because we used to have feelings for each other and I cant speak for him but some things he said actually broke my heart.
I dont know how to go past this and I feel like my constant worring is hindering my ability to thrive in life. If anyone has any advice for a situation like this please help. Ty!
@reliableSkies6093 If He is your close friend, sure He will forgive u and back..
Almost all my close friends or best friends was having a fight with me, some friends even worse, we tried to bring each other down if we r in fight but still friend is friend, We grow older and wiser, we learn from mistake we make and we admit our mistake so win2.. Some leave and don't want to come back or see us a their enemy, so be it.. but many are come back and friendships began to be more closer than before.. Time will answer but first, ask him forgiveness if u feel like making a mistake, don't shy to ask him forgiveness first unless u r female (since he is a male and u r female, then as a male should act first, female just respond.., if u both are female then both of u should asking forgiveness from each other).