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...See more To provide a background, my boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. We are still fairly young (21 years old.) He got his own place 2 years ago and still lives with the same roomates. He has 3 of them, one of which is the girlfriend of his initial roomate who never asked my boyfriend or his dad if she could move in (his dad is the landlord.) Anyways, I am in a really tough spot because I feel like there is never privacy anymore. When I go over, I can never just hang out with my boyfriend. We never have one on one time anymore. He doesn't want to go out with me because he is already over that. He always wants to stay home. For me, it sucks because I just turned 21 and enjoy doing that. He rarely comes around to family functions and sometime my family and friends ask if we are still even together. I always have to go to him, his house, and I'm getting burnt out. we are both full time students and I also have an internship and I'm always on the go. I have to make sure I have all my stuff for the day, but myself breakfast, and lunch. I can never study at his house because it's so loud, and his roomates will be drinking on a weekday blasting music. I have to respect it because it is not my house. It's just frustrating sometimes because I just want to relax with my boyfriend. I've brought it up to him before but I know it's out of his control. He's great but I am so sick of feeling like I'm dating multiple people. No privacy ever.

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