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reservedTalker3874
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Com a perda do meu pai, perdi-me
Grief & Loss / by reservedTalker3874
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 September 10th, 2025
...See more Perdi o meu pai há 6 anos. E com ele, sinto que me perdi. Não sou a mesma pessoa, não posso ser, uma vez que o meu coração está despedaçado. E as pessoas que pensei que nunca me iriam abandonar, que estavam sempre por perto, eu era de facto, divertida e fixe, deixaram de estar. Ninguém quer estar perto de ninguém triste. Abandonaram-me quando mais precisei. Faço parte dos grupos, às vezes vou a convívios, mas venho de lá ainda mais triste e só. As conversas são superfíciais, e não consigo apagar as mensagens divertidas de grupo a combinar saídas quando estava no hospital com a minha família, todos destruídos. Estou magoada. Sozinha. Gostava da minha vida de antes, quando tinha o meu pai e oensava que tinha amigos. English translation: I lost my father six years ago. And with him, I feel like I lost myself. I’m not the same person, I can’t be, since my heart is shattered. And the people I thought would never leave me, who were always around, I really was fun and cool, they stopped being there. No one wants to be around someone who’s sad. They abandoned me when I needed them most. I’m part of groups, sometimes I go to gatherings, but I leave them feeling even sadder and more alone. The conversations are superficial, and I can’t erase the funny group messages planning outings while I was in the hospital with my family, all destroyed. I am hurt. Alone. I wish I could have my old life back, when I had my father and thought I had friends.
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As amizades de hoje em dia...
Friendship Support / by reservedTalker3874
Last post
 September 10th, 2025
...See more Olá. Sempre tive muitos amigos e amigas. Até que passei por uma fase triste, luto por perda de familiar, e já não era divertida e foi duro perder a pessoa e perceber que estava mais sozinha do que alguma vez pensei. O tempo passa, estou nos grupos de WhatsApp, vejo as conversas e sou convidada para os eventos, às vezes vou, mas é Absolutamente irrelevante ir ou não. Venho dos convívios tão triste, sinto-me tão sozinha mesmo rodeada de amigos. As conversas são só sobre futilidades. Ninguém nos olha nos olhos e pergunta como estamos. E nunca esquecerei os dias em que estava no hospital com a minha família toda despedaçada e as mensagens de grupo sobre irem à festa ou encontrarem-se em casa de alguns deles. Magoou-me para sempre. Pensei que amizade fosse algo diferente. Quanto mais o tempo passa, mais sinto que não pertenço a lado nenhum. Que não tenho amigos de verdade. Tenho pessoas com quem estar, mas é tão triste. Acho que precisava de amigos... English translation: Hello. I’ve always had many friends. Until I went through a sad phase, grieving the loss of a family member, and I was no longer fun, it was hard to lose that person and realize that I was more alone than I ever thought. Time passes, I’m in WhatsApp groups, I see the conversations and I’m invited to events, sometimes I go, but it’s absolutely irrelevant whether I go or not. I leave gatherings feeling so sad, I feel so lonely even when surrounded by friends. The conversations are only about trivial things. No one looks us in the eye and asks how we are. And I will never forget the days I was in the hospital with my whole family shattered, while the group messages were about going to a party or meeting at some of their houses. That hurt me forever. I thought friendship was something different. The more time passes, the more I feel like I don’t belong anywhere. That I don’t have real friends. I have people to be with, but it’s so sad. I think I needed friends…
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