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rhemarthalia
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Relationship Stress / by rhemarthalia
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 December 27th, 2016
...See more Hi, I just want to share what I've been through this whole year of 2016. and maybe ask for an advice? I don't want to offense anyone and I'll try to make it simple. So, I'm 17 and i'm in university already, so that's quite young. I had a crush on one guy who's been in the same group as I do. The first day we start to work together I knew I would have a crush on him eventually. he's not gorgeous, he's not so charming, yet he's mature and independent and brother kinda like. At that time all I think about is "don't fall in love with him. he treats you as a friend or even a little girl. he's 20 and you're still 16 (at that time) he won't feel the way you feel about him, just stop." BUT I WAS WRONG. 2 months later, we're working on a project late night and he said he broke up with his longterm girlfriend (yes he was dating someone outside the uni). I think that's one of the reason why I fell in love with him. long story short, from the beginning of 2016 until now, I keep falling in love with him deeper and deeper. and the other thing, we have different religion and in my religion we "shouldn't have a relationship or marry someone with different beliefs". another thing, he kept giving mixed signals. sometimes when he's around me he would talk to me about the things we did back then, or make A LOT OF eye contacts, or staring at me for some time while smiling. idk what to do. so help me : do I need to stay falling for him and make a move? or do I need to memove on?
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