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...See more My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 months and last week we found out that we are pregnant. Within the 4 months I found out that he was flirting with his baby mama, he admitted to it and apologized. It makes me uncomfortable that they still talk but I know it has to be done for the sake of the baby, but I find it annoying that she calls at late hours of the night or early hours of the morning for no good reason at all, I spoke to him about it and he said he would sort it out but 2 days ago I found out that he still hasn't done that and the woman still calls at odd hours. I do not trust him anymore and it doesn't look like his interested in us fixing that. We argue every single day, he doesn't prioritize our relationship or me. He is always willing to go the extra mile for other people and never me, we can't even spend quality time together because his mother this or his brother that. We are always going in circles, we address an issue and he goes and does the same thing that I said I didn't like. He apologizes all the time and promises to change but never does. I love this man, and in his own weird way he probably loves me too and I don't want to not give our kids a chance to grow up with both parents. Yesterday I ended up breaking up with him cause I just couldn't take it anymore. But now I feel that I have failed myself, him and our relationship. Someone please advise me on how to handle this situation as I feel that I have exhausted all solutions

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