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ryaph
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Just got broken up with
Relationship Stress / by ryaph
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 October 13th, 2023
...See more hi, so I got broken up with a couple hours ago, and I’m struggling a little because from how it went and the reasoning behind it, it wasn’t my fault. For specifics, my now ex essentially said I’ve been nothing but good to him and that this was the best relationship he’s ever been in. However, he just started a new job and he has problems from his past, that I was aware of, that he feels he’s going to have to face soon, and from what it sounded like he didn’t want to deal with a relationship on top of dealing with that. He phrased it by saying that he’s worried he’s going to hurt me and wanted to end it before that happened. Another thing he mentioned though was that he entered a relationship with me quickly after ending a serious relationship with his previous ex, so while he assured I wasn’t a rebound and that we would never let it get this serious if it was like that, I can’t help but feel used. basically, although it sounds like I was not at fault for the relationship ending and it was moreso him needing to work on himself, I almost wish I was at fault because then it would be for a reason that I was in control of. But, to hear I did everything right, and it still ended makes my heart hurt and I’m hoping I can get advice on how to proceed with getting over this.
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