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...See more Ever been married and feel like your spouse is your roommate? I been dealing with no intimacy, no dates, nothing. we have had this conversation multiple times, and i constantly hear, i’m work on it, am not good at romance or i don’t know how to be romantic? A lot of us are not experts but we figure it out or we come up with ideas or plans. this man doesn’t. and i have reached the point where am done talking about, asking or even thinking about it. i decide earlier this week, that am done looking for “couple time”. apparently it’s not important to him. now granted he has Erectile Dysfunction but won’t seek help for it. but he tells me he not interested or needs sex but i’m seen him looking at porn. i just don’t understand when am dealing with something, he is the first to say, you need to talk to someone but he can’t talk to someone about his issues. his guy friend gets more time with him than i do. im dealing with depression, now anxiety and just stressed out with this and i recently lost my mom 2 months ago. i’m trying to deal with all this, take care of my dad, his finances, my kids, and our household and am at my witty ends. and i’m not perfect, but i do what am supposed to do with our marriage, but i just don’t know anymore. i feel as if he is just not attracted to me anymore so i don’t talk or say anything about intimacy anymore.

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