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...See more I hurted my ex a lot, for example this: 'How can I trust someone who, when she was with me, would reply to anyone on *** just to get attention? Or who would flirt with a guy at a club if he gave her a ride home? With the excuse, 'because I have value.' Or the fact that, when we were talking about work, you said you’d play along a bit with your boss if he was interested in you, just to get ahead. This isn't the type of person that makes me feel good or calm.' These are his words. Our relationship lasted one month, with many months of knowing each other beforehand. Since he left me, I have shown a total change in myself for two months. He sees that it's real, but he's afraid that it isn't. In these two months, he's had moments where he wanted to pull away from me, but then he always came back, and I offered him my support and always stayed by his side, consistent in my behavior. However, he recently decided he doesn't want to see me anymore. I gave up a trip to Rome with my dad to spend more time with him. A friend of my ex's gave him tickets to stay a week in Rome, and he went anyway. On ***, we had a conversation where I, being afraid of being potentially manipulated by him, became a bit cold. Once I calmed down a bit, I sent him two messages that he never answered. Little by little, day by day, he unfollowed my spam profile and then my main profile, signaling that he doesn't even want to have anything to do with me anymore or at least see what I post. What can I do to get him back? I know he often does this and that he hopes I'll write to him again. He does it because he's so afraid that I don't love him, and I want to prove it to him in every humanly possible way. Often during our relationship we talked about getting married. I wanna marry him

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