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sallyskellingtonz
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Two months after no contact, he’s back
Relationship Stress / by sallyskellingtonz
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 February 13th, 2021
...See more My ex-boyfriend and I dated from June to September, we grew a really close bond that went beyond our relationship. He deals with a lot at home and I was the first person he’d run to when he didn’t see the point in anything. We were each other’s shoulder to cry on and I was the first girl he ever told his family about. Things got worse at home for him and he just goes numb. We break up, stay friends and still facetimed until a month later he’s getting to know a girl. We kept it platonic yet he’d always try and see how I’m dealing with our breakup. I was a wreck, I still am. He’s even worse. He makes it official with the girl, she encourages every vice I kept him away from. For the first time, I walked away. Two months have gone by and today I receive a text at the exact time I submitted a apology letter to myself for class. A love letter. It was very strange, almost like a manifestation. “Sally. I need to talk to you. Please.” I felt so angry, don’t you have your new girl you replaced me with? I was mean, I told him “Why are you texting me” “What do you want” and he’d just say “I don’t know” or “Do you hate me?” - Should I seek closure or should I end this chapter? I feel like the healthy option is blocking him but even after deleting the pictures and the phone number, I still feel as if he’s my best friend. We are so young, why should I walk away? I’d hate to think I’m an option but he doesn’t flirt nor bring up anything we did in the past. Does he just want to keep me in his life? I needed to rant really, just tell me your POV on the whole situation. He always would say “I deserve better” or that I’m his Heaven on Earth. His family always taught him crying is for the weak yet he’s so vulnerable around me. It’s time to let go, isn’t it?
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