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...See more I’m a lesbian and I was in a relationship with this girl about 4 years ago, we broke up and went no contact, then about 2 years ago she reached out to see how I was doing and we ended up meeting a couple of days which was really nice but she ended up saying that she thinks it’s not clever if we see each other anymore (idk why she said that bc it seemed like the connection was there and we were having a really nice time) and we’ve been no contact again after that. I think about her a lot and I thought with time it would get better but it’s not, I’m just driving myself insane. It’s really hard because our connection was so strong and I just keep hoping to see her again. I wasn’t really able to date after her bc I just end up looking for her in everyone else and she told me she had the same when I saw her 2 years ago… I really don’t know what to do and I have no one to speak to about this, I have loads of unsent messages to her in my notes app, idk if messaging her would make things better or worse bc I’m scared she might just not answer or if she rejects me or something bc that would just break me, idk why it’s getting worse idk if it’s ocd thoughts or smth and there were ofc both good and bad in the relationship but it just feels like we belong together… If anyone has been through something similar or any advice/opinions on this will be really appreciated because I really don’t know what to do anymore

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