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secretPrune9322
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Psychopathic/Narcissistic Abuse
Trauma Support / by secretPrune9322
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 October 26th, 2018
...See more I have dealt with a narcissist, a real one. I have loved a true narcissist... And I was emotionally abused by one... and that kind of abuse is awful... it causes narcissistic victim syndrome.... ptsd/ctpsd... and other troubling things You can't really understand this until you experience it... but I will try to explain it in the best way I could... People with narcissistic personality disorder display the following symptoms.. These kind of people are in need of supply... or people to fill up their fragile hungry egos... people who make them appear good... popular and desired/wanted... to get that supply from powerful people, they have to weaken them and make them vulnerable... they do that through a certain process... Idealize, devalue, discard.... it's the worst form of emotional abuse ever... during the idealization phase, your dreams, your wants, your desires and even your own identity is mirrored... like a chameleon, they change their skin in order to trick you into falling in love with them... and once they've done that, the torture begins... and comes the devaluation phase.... where you fall from cloud 9... they build you up so high so that you can fall so hard.... in that phase you're treated with indifference... and bad treatment in general and they sprinkle a little bit of the idealization onto you... and eventually throw u in trash... it can be repeated again... a few times till they're finally done with you... it leaves the target severely traumatized... severely severely traumatized... it's one of the worst forms of abuse that you can experience.. it's an entirely different level of insanity....INSANITY... so yeah... there is more insanity to it...but that's the basic ... there are other techniques used to torture... of course... but this is the very basic... you can research narcissistic abuse.. it's complete insanity.. I am so interested in finding someone who can support me along my healing journey... i am kinda dying...
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