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Hold on or let it go
Relationship Stress / by selfconfidentField7898
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 June 30th, 2025
...See more Hii there .. I want to ask a question, i am stuck in a situation where, I kind of like a boy . He used to have a crush on me ( maybe now too , I can't say ) , back at that time I don't have any feelings for him but after a year of knowing him , I started to like him . For around a duration of one year we used to talk not much just he used to ask me something and I was Just reply just almost surface level talk . He was the one who used to text me first ( but he rarely talk to me in person, he was shy maybe) . But after a year due to some family reasons didn't talk with him and he sensed it and never initiated any talk . So , after that things are like that only for now one and half year . We had talk like 5 or 6 time in whole duration. Now , he seems closed off not like before. He had gone through a heartbreak in his previous relationship where he loved that girl deeply. He has a addiction for smoking and drinking. So , now I am not sure what to do because firstly, I now know that I like him for the person he is but I hate this addictions he has and I don't want to have a who is into all these . Second ly, I am not sure whether he just had a crush on me or something more to or whether he had moved on from his ex or not Third, He is from different caste than mine . So i am also not certain whether they will agree or not . Chances are they can but can say with surety. So now what should I do , hold on the hope that maybe he will try to talk things out or just release this hope that things would ever change or he is the one for me. Because I am very introvert person. I don't talk much with people. I can and will talk with him clearly but for that I atleast need to know where I stand for him . If after reading this u have any suggestions please let me know . I am stuck in all these emotional web for two years now . I don't know what to do .
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