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i feel like my friend is toxic but i can't tell
Relationship Stress / by selfconfidentGrapes2206
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 October 30th, 2023
...See more I have this really close friend. We will call her amy. Amy and I have been really close since we were in elementary school. Even through thick and then we have stayed friends. But since the end of last school year she has seemed distant. I feel like she toys with me and is a friend with me out of pity. She has new friends and is really close with them which i'm okay with. It's just the fact that she is so different around them than me. He never wants to take a picture with me but always is in photos with her other friends. She never invites me to things. She says that i shouldn't be feeling like we are drifting apart just because she hangs out with new people and that she lets me talk to others. This of which i completely agree. But when let's say i'm with her and her new friends i'm like a stranger. Sometimes out of no where she will be a complete meanie (can't curse)  to me and i try to ask what's wrong but she ends the conversation quickly. I feel lost and hopeless and alone. I don't know where i stand in our relationship and i feel like it's all crumbling she is always hiding her phone and i just don't understand. I do admit i have gotten nosy and peaked over her shoulder to see what was the commotion but she caught me and lost trust which i understand. But the problem seems to always to be me. In all the years that i have been friends with her she has not really mentioned anything personal. She hasn't really shared anything it's just been surface level. I feel really one sided and don't know what to do. Aita? is it amy? she's really off and on and i'm loosing hope in find new friends since i live in a close knit community where everyone knows everyone and everything.
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