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...See more Hello All, I’m a 32 (M) and I have been dating my current fiance 25 (F) for about 4.5 years now, engaged for a little over a year. 3 weeks ago, she broke down crying saying she wasn’t happy in our relationship. She says that there isn’t any excitement anymore and that I stopped doing the little things and have been disengaged in our relationship. We’ve had this talk before and I would start off strong after our talk but I always seemed to cut it short. Personally, I have been going through a rough time at my job and personal life. I do not like my job and the state I am in my life. My career was put on hold because I met this amazing woman while she was going to college and I did not want to move and be further away. I proposed to her after 3 years of dating and she said yes. It was one of the happiest days of our life. She graduated college this past Spring and we moved in together because she got a new job in a different city. Ever since she graduated, her needs have changed and she wants to conquer the world and climb the highest mountains. I am more of a passive person and do not thrill seek like she does. I am the more responsible one making financial plans and making sure everything is set for our future together. She said she does not want kids right now and I want them in the near future. I feel like we grown apart from each other these past few months and it’s heartbreaking. I love her to death but we just are 2 different people and only now realizing it. We talked last night and it’s more and more likely that our engagement is coming to an end. I am sorry if my text feels like it’s all over the place and my story may seem incomplete but I am just a mess right now. I just feel lost, defeated, and beaten down.

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