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sensitiveBanana2234
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Anxiety Support / by sensitiveBanana2234
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 October 21st, 2020
...See more I have been going out with a new girl for about 6 times. I am 28 she is 20. I have initiated all 6 times. I always text first. We having been hanging out weekly on Friday nights. Usually from 7pm-1am We have fun and are very touchy and kiss. I tried to have sex but she said no because she is a virgin. She always says yes to hanging out. She always text back. Sometimes when we are doing something she brings up other guys. What brings me anxiety and depression is that she never initiates text. She never schedules dates. In person if she thinks I get upset she will ask if I will stop talking to her in a worried manner. She says she trust me and wants me to trust her. Also we don’t text much, only to set up the date and then we wait. When we do text she always responds with a sentence. I dont want to get used just to pay for dinner and take her out. I want to get something out of this. I feel like I am putting in all the effort. I would like her to reciprocate back. Or to have sex with her. I have a date scheduled on Thursday. I don’t know what to do or say.
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