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shingocosie
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Navigating Jealousy in a Non-Committed Relationship
Relationship Stress / by shingocosie
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November 23rd, 2025
...See more There's this guy I've been talking to for about three months now (let's call him L). He lives a few hours away so our relationship has been purely internet based so far, but we talk every day and plan to meet up this month. We agreed that our relationship should be kept on the casual side (i.e. no commitment) due to distance, but he was also hinting at past relationship trauma. He mentioned that I was the only person he was flirting with, though every now and again I'll see women comment flirty things on his *** posts. I'll check out their profiles and notice that L follows them and likes all of their posts. For some reason, this fills me with rage and self-hatred, despite the fact that we're not committed to each other. Does anyone have any insight as to why I may be feeling this way, and what I could do about it?
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I have a friend in crisis
Depression Support / by shingocosie
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October 10th, 2021
...See more (I’m not sure if this is the right place for this discussion so please let me know if I’ve made a mistake!) • Mentions: suicide A friend messaged me this morning letting me know that they were in crisis and asked to come by. When they got here, they told me about how their mother wants to disown them after she walked in on them attempting suicide this morning. I asked if they have a mental health professional that they speak to, and they told me that that method doesn’t often work for them. Does anyone have any tips on how I can approach this conversation and better support them?
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