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shyNorth4983
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PathStep 21 Compassion hearts12 Forum posts2 Forum upvotes3 Current upvotes3 Age GroupAdult Last activeJune, 2022 Member sinceMarch 25, 2022
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Accepting that I have a problem.
Addiction Support / by shyNorth4983
Last post
 May 31st, 2022
...See more I've a habit of masturbating 1-2 times a day. Some weeks it's every other day. It has had an impact on my love life with my partner though that usually just led to infrequent intercourse. Which was fine for a while because I could be intimate in other ways. Sometimes a cuddle was all that I needed. Over the last couple months we lost our sweet cat to an unfortunate disease. The grief has made us both very uninterested in sex. My partner was very clear about it and I have to respect her decision. Recently she mentioned that she's more interested in women on account of being bisexual. Saying she loves me and finds women more attractive at the moment. No argument there though my mind has been questioning if she still finds me attractive. She does and I find myself with urges to sleep with other women or finding someone who would enjoy our company. I don't want to cheat on her and she feels the same way.
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I've struggled with self-esteem for a long time.
7 Cups Online Therapy / by shyNorth4983
Last post
 March 26th, 2022
...See more My lack of confidence can make things rough. I should be able to believe in myself and persevere. At this point in my life I'm working somewhere that makes me unhappy. My low self worth makes for finding a new job difficult. I keep trying to imagine myself in that potential new role and it doesn't stick. I'm trying to believe in me every time I start to critique my thoughts and actions. It's not easy and I'll try to keep moving forward.
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