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Confused
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 February 24th
...See more I'm confused.... So,I met a woman who locked her keys in the car during a snow storm after she put her child in car seat. The wind blew her door shut and it locked. I was in my car smoking a cigarette and seen her and helped her. Afterwards,We exchanged numbers. She asked me for the number I didn't ask her. That was 3 weeks ago. So,She lives in a building next to me and anytime she runs errands store etc she always asks me to go and I usually do if I'm not doing anything. Little by little we have become closer. She cooks for me,asks me to go everywhere she goes,always texts,I've been to the park with her daughter who is 2 and who's father took off 1.5 years ago. So,I asked her about a week ago how she felt about dating. I noticed she was kind of apprehensive when I went to hold her hand in the car so I drew back. She said she's not really trying to get into anything so I let it go as maybe she wasn't interested or whatever. Well,A couple days later she said I'm just looking to fool around and had like a narrative of me. We where driving when she said it in her car. So,I said look,If I was looking for that I could get it. I told her I felt insulted she felt that way about me and when we go back by our buildings I started to walk off. She said my name,grabbed my arm and then hugged me and said sorry. She said she could now see its not that way with me and she was really apologetic. I told her it's ok and that I could understand that. So now,She always hugs and holds hands and whatever but when I went to kiss her she said she's not ready for that. I'm like wth? I don't have bad breath or anything. She also texted me and said she had a dream I got her pregnant. I don't understand where this is going and I've asked her. I'm like so what are you trying to do? I mean,a woman doesn't cook for a guy, ALWAYS want him to be seen in public and constantly text if she isn't into somebody. I just don't get it. I really like her and her daughter and her daughter is getting somewhat attached to me. I just don't get it. It's not like I'm being played out of money or something because I mean Ive laid for dinners and so has she. We pick up drinks/snacks at gas station mutually so it's not like a play situation. I just don't get it....Tonight I asked if she was not attracted to me and she said it's not that she just doesn't kiss people she barely knows. What should I do/say here?
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