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...See more I'm in a very stressful situation with my relationship atm. I did something that hurt my boyfriend whom I'd dated about a year last month and it was traumatizing for him. At that time I had panic attack and I kinda acted out of my control though it's still unjustifiable and I have apologized and have seen a therapist since then. He broke up with me and we ended up reconciling and though, we have been trying to rebuild things, he's still unsure about moving in together with me and continuing our relationship as he'll move to another city for a new job and initially we wanted to move in together for that before the breakup. I told him I wanna fight for the connection but I wanted him to fight too and choose me like I choose him. I'm willing to be patient until he's sure but we have only about one month before his job starts and we have felt more connected than the first week after we decided to get back together. However, last night I just discovered that he crossed the boundaries he offered to set on his solo trip months ago in which he went out with a girl he met there and had been hiding it from me. He said he was about to tell me this this weekend during our relationship check-in and he took accountability and want to work on getting my trust back. I'm conflicted whether I should keep this relationship going or not. The facts that he's still unsure and he has broken my trust are the things that I consider to walk away. On the other hand, see that he has the capability to communicate and being honest most of the time and work on things between us.

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