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sincereBlueberry5588
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Contemplating a separation
Relationship Stress / by sincereBlueberry5588
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 April 11th, 2019
...See more I just don't know what to do and have felt stuck in this marriage for many years. He is a good man, but we both suffer from depression. Lately, I just can't get out of this deep hole and I feel like my depression is getting worse. I want to split, but I worry about how the kids will handle it, and I am afraid my husband's depression will get very bad. I feel like leaving would be selfish of me, but on the other hand, staying is making my depression worse. We have tried marriage counselling, but I feel like I have tried so hard for so long and I just don't have anything left to give him. I desperately need time and space and a new start because none of us are thriving. Getting out on my own (with shared custody) might help me feel better, but it might not. I am afraid I will never be happy. I can't make any decisions.. I could really use some advice .How do I decide which direction to go?
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