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...See more Hello everyone... I want to share my experience as I feel so much pain.... In 2023 my 10 years long relationship my fiancee ended because she cheated on me with a common friend and after 10 days they got married. It was a huge shock for me but I managed to get help and getting back to sanity... I pushed myself to do new things like traveling and meeting with strangers in meetup groups. I started a new relationship in late August and that made me realize how bad was my previous relationship and how many things I've been missing out... But again... This other relationship ended because she went to another guy and left me because he went to him... I'm back on the same page I was a few months ago. I have no faith in humanity anymore, I feel completely lonely and sad. I keep thinking there is something wrong with me because I am a very generous person and people seem to use me and then they get so comfortable and they cheat. I am aware I should work on myself and learn to stop being so soft and set boundaries and respect myself first. But I am a nice person and generous by nature and if someone needs help I can't help it but run to them. I can't sleep because I feel so stressed and completely lonely, I keep looking at the other side of the bed.... I don't know what to do... Can anyone give me some advice on how to get less soft and get respected from other people?

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