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sincerePrune5057
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I was cheated on
Relationship Stress / by sincerePrune5057
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 August 31st, 2025
...See more I never thought this would be something that would happen to me, but again things can happen to anyone at any point in time. A point in time my boyfriend was emotionally checked out, depressed, like a void and barely clinging to life mentally. I was part of it because I stressed him out with what was happening on my life during that time and the things I told him were all negative. He told me he had something to tell me, that it eats away at him and he really truly loves me and he’s cutting of all his friends and etc if that means being better for me. He told me he cheated on me with my friend. He deeply regrets it told me what happened but doesn’t remember how it got to that point because of his mentality. They didn’t have sex. But she gave him head. I asked her more about it too. They both are very apologetic. But my bf said that she told him to not tell him and he said that wasn’t gonna happen and that he’s gonna tell me and he did tell me. He clearly regrets it deeply. Says that I’m literally the best thing in his life and what he would pray to God about as a kid. I feel like a fool. I still love him and I believe his promise of change. I never wanted to end up like my mom or my sister who is married and was cheated on too. I feel so stupid. There is something telling me to stay tho. There’s more to this but… yeah. I feel so heavy I don’t even want to eat but to make things worse I’m on my period so I have to eat something or I might faint at my job ( I work ODV in Disney). It’ll keep my distracted at least. I hope. This ain’t everything but it’s a lot of it.
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I need someone to talk to
Relationship Stress / by sincerePrune5057
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 October 2nd, 2024
...See more My boyfriend of 2 years just broke up with me last night, although he said it was an in progress thing bc he had to talk to more people and that he still loves me, he feels like he had no other choice bc for his mental sake… I put so much stress on him and he is stressing enough, he feels a lack of emotional connection and feels like he has to dumb things down and that I’m easily manipulated, weak minded and naive. He doesn’t want to break up and it shows and ik he is going through a lot of mental stress. This isn’t the first time though. We’ve broke up before in highschool and it was similar situation with him going through family problems and stress. I also can’t blame him tho, he’s been waiting for me to change a few times, and I fell short of in the change too quickly and too hard I’d just fall short and I realized that. We had a conversation which resulted in us almost breaking up but we didn’t until last night, earlier in the day I asked to talk to him with something in frustrated with and I’m not ok, I told him I was failing a class not to be mad at me as I am going to work it out myself and not give me advice. When we called I told him that on top of my procrastination and etc I put myself into a seemingly never ending cycle and didn’t do the work. I said I definitely could’ve done more and yet I didn’t. I know he would’ve taken it as a problem in our relationship but as my partner I thought he deserved to know what’s going on with me… there’s more but I can’t type rn
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