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slumberland75
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Relationship Stress / by slumberland75
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 June 23rd, 2021
...See more Hi all, I'm new here. I've been with my lover for four years. I can't believe how hooked I am. I feel more like an addict to his approval and care than anything else... right now he's in a silent mode. Punishing me because I put some limits. I need to get out. Right now he's on holidays with his family, but I fear if I see him, I'll get hooked again. He manipulates me so well. Any tips as to how to start? Can't block him, because we work together. � And I also fear the discredit part of the cycle. � I've seen him doing it, and he's vicious. Thanks to you all. [Edited by @QuietMagic 11/20/21 to remove stigmatizing content]
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