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snowflakeupinhere
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hi, im a tired 14 year old!! i have depression and anxitey and im working through it! sometimes i wanna give up but i cant. dm me if stuff gets too hard cuz im here to chat if anybody feels lonely :)

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hello I'm new! my name is maya.
Trauma Support / by snowflakeupinhere
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February 17th, 2022
...See more hii im maya, I have trauma from my father, I've recently moved away with my mother and brother to the other side of the world. I'm happier now but I still have probelsm with severe depression and anxitey. I'm working on it but its hard sometimes. I know some gymnastics, and I hope to get to know you all better!!
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I can't seem to attach myself to anybody.
Trauma Support / by snowflakeupinhere
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August 10th, 2022
...See more I dont trust people. at all. I act all nice and im funny and I love my friends I do, but I'm so scared to reach out, I can't reach out without it being initiated by them and then I mostly listen to them. its a problem with my father, I grew up with him screaming and chasing after me and my mother for no reason, you could genuinely say anything, ANYTHING, he didn't agree with and he'd go crazy. my therapist says I can't trust anybody and don't reach out because I just grew up like that. all my friends can trust and they trust me, I feel horrible for not being able to trust them back. I want to be more trusting but I also don't, I feel safe this way. but I also feel horrible about not being able to trust them. one of my friends is moving city's next year and another one of them is moving to a different school, I feel bad for not feeling bad but I just haven't become attached to them, and as much as I want to I also don't. I love them but I've only known them for less then a year, I shouldn't get attached it'll most likely only hurt me in the long run. what should I do? should I trust or not. if I should how, how do I trust people and get attached?
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