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I feel like my relationship is broken 💔
Relationship Stress / by sociableLand1820
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 October 8th, 2025
...See more Hi everyone, I’m 22 years old and I’ve been in a relationship for 1 year and 8 months. Lately, I feel like things are falling apart. Every time we argue, we never solve anything — it just feels like a cycle that doesn’t end. A few months after we started dating, he lied to me. One time, after an argument, he went to his mom’s place for her birthday. The next day I wanted to fix things, so I prepared dinner hoping he’d come after work. But he didn’t reply to my messages until hours later. When I went to see him, I found out he had been drinking and told me a girl offered him a drink and he accepted. That really broke my trust, because I was giving everything. After that, I started noticing more small lies and I changed. I started being disrespectful, even verbally and physically aggressive. He would just stay quiet, but eventually he got tired and wanted to break up three months ago. I didn’t want to, and I apologized for how I treated him. Now it feels like there’s too much pride on both sides. When we argue, we both say hurtful things and never reach a solution. I love him, but it feels like the relationship is broken. I don’t know what to do anymore. Should I keep trying, or let go?
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