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...See more i have a crush on this guy. he goes to my uni and i see him around campus and at the student union (SU) i think it’s more of a limmerance and maybe even an obsession, as he didn’t really know me until last week. he has seen me around and we make eye contact quite often in the uni library. i have liked him since november but i thought he wasn’t interested. we have a mutual friend who told me he’s not looking for a relationship and isn’t interested in me. last week i found him on hinge and i liked him. to my surprise, he liked me back and we matched. we talked on sunday evening sending just a few funny/ a little flirty (?) messages, but then he hasn’t replied since. it has made me feel very down all week. i know he’s been active as i have seen him on social media. i even saw him out at the SU on wednesday. so it’s not that he’s too busy to reply. i know i shouldn’t assume but i feel like that means he’s definitely not interested and is ignoring me for the reason he simply doesn’t wish to talk to me. on top of this, i have had no matches on hinge in about a week. the whole situation is making me feel undesirable and gross. my self esteem is really low and it’s having a big impact on my mental health. i just feel not good enough for him and it’s making me feel terrible. i was wondering if anyone had any advice on what i should!! whether i should talk to him or not get closure. any advice also on how to get over him, or how to make it stop feeling so awful. thanks :)

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