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boyfriend stressing me out
Relationship Stress / by sourdino
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 July 9th, 2023
...See more so i'm feeling really depressed and anxious rn. my (20f) boyfriend (22m) of 2 years, went out with his friends tonight, which i knew he was doing but he specifically told me he'd "have a few drinks." i should've known that was a lie bc he's said that before and ended up drinking way more. anyways he ended up barhopping and literally going to a NIGHT CLUB (never does either of these things) and he's had way too much to drink, doesn't even remember what all he's had. to make matters worse, he KNOWS this bothers me. and it annoys him bc he "just wants to have fun with his friends without getting hounded." there are plenty of other ways to have fun that don't include getting absolutely hammered. this is the biggest turn off for me and i am sick of it. he's had alcoholism issues in the past and i just don't want that to start up again. he also has pre-hypertension and has lied to me before about not drinking, although that was a few years ago. how do i deal with this? i havent left my bed the whole time hes been out. i feel like im going crazy and i just need someone to understand. i wish i wasn't so invisible to him and i wish he respected my feelings. also he keeps sending me videos of him being out partying, as if he's rubbing it in my face bc he knows it kills me to see it.
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