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...See more Hey, I hope you’re all doing well :) I was hoping to get some insight and advice on this subject. So, I am AFAB, and currently identify as a cisgender woman. Always have since I was young, never really put too much thought into my gender. Was always like “well everyone says I’m a girl and I present as a girl so I must be a girl”. Recently, since the beginning of this year, I’ve been thinking more about my gender and stuff. I’ve been thinking and like. I wouldn’t say I “feel like a woman” or anything. I definitely do not feel masculine, and it makes me super uncomfortable to think about being perceived in a masculine sense. I’ve been thinking like. Being called a girl or woman doesn’t quite sound right? I’ve been thinking about trying she/they pronouns bc those sound kinda nice. But idk like I don’t really care if I get called a woman like sure I don’t care lol whatever. It’s super confusing and I like have this massive fear of being wrong. I don’t know man. And like, when I think about myself, I don’t think “yeah, I am a woman/girl” it’s more like. I’m just a person? I’m just me? It’s not really gendered in my head, like I’m just me. I’m just a silly lil guy lol. I don’t know. If anyone has any advice or anything that would be wonderful, I would really appreciate it :)

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