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Was it rape? Was it sexual assault? Was it anything?
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 September 30th, 2015
...See more Hi! This happened a few months ago I'm really struggling with it -- mostly because I have no idea what it was. My boyfriend and I were having sex a few months ago. At one point, it really really started to hurt, and I told him to stop. He paused for a moment but then he kept going. At that point, I just kept pleading with him to stop, repeating the word over and over again. He didn't say anything about it afterwards and acted completely normal. I've posted everywhere about this recently and I've gotten all kinds of responses. I've gotten people saying that it wasn't rape because he was already inside me with consent, I've gotten people saying that it was rape because he didn't stop when I wasn't consenting, people have told me it was sexual assault because it hurt and he wouldn't stop. Maybe it's nothing, I don't know, but it doesn't feel right.
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