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Husband is obsessed with sex
Relationship Stress / by straightforwardAcres5935
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 April 3rd, 2025
...See more For the last 2 years I’ve been very depressed and struggling with family issues. Not feeling intimacy. He’s been pushing and coercing me, to the point where after hours of me saying please let me sleep or I’m really not feeling it I’d have to give in or he’d become explosive. Everytime I cry or have a bad day or even good day he just starts saying things that we should be doing and grabbing and gripping me. We depressed for while but he came back saying it’s all ok because he loves me again. I explained what he’s done and why im so turned off by it all. He said he’s trying to change, and he sort of is, but he still does it but doesn’t get explosive and says “ I can’t help myself you do it to me” “I can’t touch you or be near if I can’t have it”and he doesnt come near me or hug me or anything if he thinks he’s not getting it. I feel that’s bs and you should be able to control yourself especially if you love your wife and can see she’s not happy. We've been married over 20 years. In 20/20 hindsight feel like this was always a thing but I wasn’t broken so I just gave it when he wanted.
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