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sunnyBeing3193
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ATTN: Divorcee
Relationship Stress / by sunnyBeing3193
Last post
 April 11th, 2018
...See more At what point, or moment, did you know that you wanted a divorce?
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Feelings sprouting for another..
Relationship Stress / by sunnyBeing3193
Last post
 March 31st, 2018
...See more I dont really have anyone in my life to turn to about this situation I am in. A part of me feels like maybe Im just confused about my feelings, but another part cant stop obsessing... help! I have been married for about two and a half years and with him for almost seven. He is my best friend and I truly love him, but lately it feels like we arent on the same level. It feels like Im growing and progressing while he is still the same person as when we got together. He does have an alcohol problem, but it only happens a couple times a month where is gets really bad. My problem begins with our mutual friend, who we have both known for years. My husband and him, lets call him K, have been friends for a long time and just recently became close due to becoming coworkers and living next to each other. I would consider K my friend, too. Recently, I have been thinking about K in a more sexual way... I like when he comes around to see my husband so we can hang out together. We tease each other and sometimes I feel like its on the border of flirting. Last night, I had my first dream about him, and it was pretty hot. I cant stop thinking about it. Is this normal to want attention from someone else right when my marriage is rocky? Should I say anything to my husband or K about this situation, or keep it to myself? Will these feelings go away? I love my husband and would never cheat on him, especially not with his good friend. But I cant shake these feelings for him.
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