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Depression Support / by sunnyPineapple5075
Last post
 October 5th, 2025
...See more I gave 2year of my life to a person that didn't know how to sheriche it. now i am all by myself and i don't know how to love me again, i feel empty
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I am tired
Relationship Stress / by sunnyPineapple5075
Last post
 August 8th, 2025
...See more I am in a relationship with a 25years old woman, who keep disrespecting me with multiple ways (being late, rude, not caring, forgeting dates...) to the point when i even try to talk to her (cause i believe communication is key) she put all the blame on me and tell me that i don't understand her and that she don't like the way i am with her, and if im not happy i can go.Once again i try to explain that i am like this because of what she does to me and it hurt. All she do is moving on like nothing happend and keep doing the same mistakes that makes me sad, irritated and depressed. I don't know what to do, i am really tired like really, i tried my best and i did everything to make here understand me but she never did and she always hurt me with her words. I am tired of this disrespect, what should i do? Am i at fault ? What did i do wrong ? In what step i f up? I tried to end the relation but something is holding me i still have hope or smt. I really need an advise or somone to understand me
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Broken trust
Relationship Stress / by sunnyPineapple5075
Last post
 May 11th, 2025
...See more I have been lied to twice by the woman I love. Let me tell you my story. There was a woman I was interested in, and I asked her out. We became a couple. She's the type who doesn't show her emotions and focuses mainly on her objectives, while I was the opposite type (taking care of her, showing my love through multiple ways). We always had some quarrels about a friend she had (male), let's call him S. S was her childhood best friend, and they were always together, doing everything together, which was okay in my opinion when I wasn't in the picture. But now that I am, I requested that she give some of that time to me, as she was supposed to do those activities with me now (or else, why am I her boyfriend?). With a lot of communication and talking, she accepted. Months later, I heard from one of her friends that she had been out with S and talking about me in a way that I'm not even her boyfriend etc، I confronted her, and after a long conversation, she said it was true and apologized. At that moment, my trust in her (which is necessary for a long-term relationship) got broken. But I loved her so much that I was ready to bury this pain and start again. Before accepting her apology, I asked her one question: "Is that it? Is there any other secret that you didn't tell me yet? Please just tell me everything now." Her response was no; there was nothing. Months passed, and we had other quarrels about the same S. At one time, he gave her a red flower (she loves flowers), and another day, she told me that he was interested in her (in the past). I tried my best to stay calm and explain that all this hurt and it's not okay. Months passed again, and one day when we were doing our stuff, she didn't want me to kiss her. I was confused, and later I asked why. She said, "Well, I kept thinking about a bad memory. To be honest, my first kiss was with S." This one was very painful. I didn't know what to do; I was so devastated by all this time that she was lying to me (she always said I was her first kiss). I am super confused and traumatized. I love her, but she keeps lying to me. I love her, but Ishe don't want to stop seeing S. I love her, but I don't know how I can trust her again. Please, can someone help me just understand how I can get through all this? Thank you for reading this."
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Relationship Stress / by sunnyPineapple5075
Last post
 November 24th, 2024
...See more Hello, to make my story short, It's been 2 years that me and my gf are together (met at work) the problem is that she is bad with expressing herself and very stubborn person, I love here so much to the extent that I sacrificed myself multiple time for here happiness. The problem is that I feel that I am emotionally dependet of here, she can make me happy (the only one) or sad.  We are doing everything together to the point where i feel empty when i am alone.  I want to get out of this, and get control over my emotions again, do u have any idea how ?
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