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Confused about the breakup
Relationship Stress / by sunshine2118
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September 23rd, 2020
...See more My boyfriend broke up with me about two weeks ago and I have been very sad and confused about it. I miss him every single day and hope that I will wake up to a text from him. We dated back in Jr. High and recently reconnected he started talking to me. I have been burned a lot in the past so I wanted to take this slow and make sure that we were both on the same page. He had told me that his last relationship ended about three months before we started talking and the way he talked about her sounded like he had for sure moved on. Like I said I was hesitant and he was the one who brought up everything about how quickly he fell in love with me, how he could already see a future with me, and even told me he was looking at engagement rings. He could tell that I still had my guard up and kept reassuring me that he loved me and that he would never be with someone if he didn't love them. His ex ended up getting married to the guy she left him for and everything changed after that. I could tell he was upset about it but yet he kept telling me he saw a future with me and even wanted to start looking at townhomes to get with one another. And then one day he just finally said we need a mental health break and work on ourseleves separatly. But yet he kept saying he wanted me, I wasn't losing him and that he was working on himself for me. Then he just broke up with me. And I can't help but to be confused as to why he would say all those things to me. He still says he never lied to me and he meant all of that but he needs time to himself and to work on his mental health. I guess I'm just confused how someone could mean all of that and just break up with you,
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