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What should I do?
General Support / by sxndaybonbon
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 September 29th
...See more I'd like some advice on what to do in this situation. You see, I have a romantic partner. They are very passionate about acting and they give it their absolute all in everything they do regarding it. However, for that exact reason, I'm worried. It's been a week or so since their last show and they haven't been like themself. They insist they're fine, but I can tell they aren't. They're constantly tired, spacing out, and quieter than usual, which is unlike them. I'd stayed quiet about my worries then. At some point in this past week, I've realized I may not know them for who they really are. I realized that I didn't know what lay behind that bright personality that I love so much. What made them happy, what made them afraid, what made them sad, all of it. Despite it all, they had known all the sides of me and never failed to be a shoulder for me to lean on. I hadn't given them that same courtesy. Upon this realization, I tried to reach out. I tried to tell them that if they wanted a shoulder to lean on, I was there, that they weren't alone in whatever they were dealing with, but they still denied it, believing that there was no need to worry and that they were sorry that I thought that. I kept trying but it only resulted in them pushing me away. I'm afraid that, at this rate, they will push everyone away. As their partner I thought I had an obligation to help, but it seems what I try to do only makes things worse. How can I prove to them that I love them and that I care about them? In this situation, is it even possible? Could I still salvage some part of our relationship, or is it pointless if they wouldn't accept help?  Please, I'd like anything, if it would help. I love them so much and it hurts to just watch them suffer in silence.
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I need some studying advice :')
Newbie Hub / by sxndaybonbon
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 January 2nd, 2025
...See more My name is Daia, and am currently a high school student. In the past I was not really good at studying on my own (or studying at all for that matter) because I just didn't see the point in it. I understood the basics, and that was enough to do well in my classes. Fast forward to now, taking two college level courses and notes are required! (>:o) In one of them we don't even talk about the subject (if at all) and it's definitely taking a toll on my grades. I've also been bad at turning in (and/or doing) homework, but still do great on tests and quizzes.  So, I need some studying advice. How does one sit down at a desk for hours and study? And, how to make notes that would be good study material for later?
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