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...See more Recently mine and my girlfriends relationship hasn’t been feeling the same at all. When we first got together over two years ago it was so fun and exciting we didn’t care what anyone thought or if anyone stared at us in public but now she won’t even hold my hand because she’s scared of what people think. I feel like I’ve gone back to being the 17 year old me who was scared to be gay and show who I was and I’m finding myself getting nervous/ embarrassed to tell people I have a girlfriend now surely this isn’t normal I used to be so proud of it!! These aren’t the only problems though even behind close doors she is not as affectionate with me she always wants it to be me making the first moves and I just don’t feel as loved any more. She is also putting less effort in to please me she’s getting quite selfish with everything she does and is putting herself before me which I’ve ignored for a long time but now I’m over it! I want to bring all this up to her but every time I try talk to her she gets really defensive and takes everything too personal so I feel like I’m walking on eggshells when bringing things up to her. Things like this scare me for the future because how can we stay together when the communication is none existent? I don’t know whether the relationship is worth saving anymore or if I’ve fallen out of love I just don’t know what to think any more

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