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tealStrings0410
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Feeling Abandoned
Relationship Stress / by tealStrings0410
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 January 24th, 2018
...See more I have 9 best friends back in college. We used to do and talk about EVERYTHING together. As we graduated, I feel like I'm being excluded from this group. I didn't thing I hurt anyone at all. I just don't get it why everytime they meet up they never ask me out anymore? Is it because I work everyday while they don't have any job yet? I mean, at least they ASK. I'd love to hang out for an hour or two before going to work, or at weekends! I was so hurt when I saw their photos on instagram. I mean, they didn't even ask me out, I had no idea they were hanging out, and than BAM that's the photos of them in my timeline, all havin a good time. What's the harm of asking a friend to hang out? I don't always decline! We have group chat for god sake. It's possible they create another one...without me on it. One of my friends in 'our' group let say she's M, always comes to me everytime she needs help with assignments (she's taking master's like I am). M keeps asking to 'see' my essays, send her my slides for courses, etc. Every single time. Well it was actually all they did back in undergrads. I was okay then bcs I loved them and of course I was happy to help. But now?? The way they abandoned me right after graduation, and M and some others too still ask for my help when they don't even seem to want me with them?? I'
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